People Reporters Reaching out to the People in Nigeria
By Lawrence Blessing Aya
Every young couple today wants a successful and peaceful marriage, but dont know how to get it and end up in divorce . Yes no man wants to see his wife in pain neither does the wife want to see her husband in pain, they all want the best for each other,But most of them lack the knowledge on how to do so thereby causing pain and suffering to the other unknowingly.Here are few keys to follow if you want a successful and peaceful marriage.
(1) SEEK FOR A SPIRITUAL CONNECTION WITH YOUR CREATOR.
The fear of your creator is the beginning of wisdom,ask him to show you how to act towards your partner not to get them mad or angry.
(2)SEEK FOR A SEXAUL CONNECTION TO YOUR PARTNER:
SEX is one of the most important thing in marriage,when the man or the woman don’t get sexual pleasure from the other it push he/she to seek for it outside the marriage which is bad and can kill the joy and peace of that home,sex is a union in marriage that is created by God so as to be enjoyed by the couple not just to make babies.most couples apply holiness in sex even in marriage.
(3) COMMUNICATION SKILLS (CRYING TOGETHER ).
When two people are married they are now one and it’s only build a good marriage if the man can open up to his wife and cry to her telling her about his problems and how he feels,also the woman crying and sharing all her pain together with him when they both cry for joy and pain together it’s helps keep the United to achieve a successful marriage.
(4) THEY ARE BOTH EQUAL.
When the man starts to feel to big in the house and wants every one to obry his order and command forgetting that his wife also has her own feelings or the woman feeling too big cause she now has a job that pays more than that of the husband and she feels as if she now have the say in the house.they should understand that they are both equal and have same right as the other and come to an agreement.
(5) NOT EVERYONE IS A TRUE FRIEND:
People out there look at your happy home and wish to have it and when they can’t they seek for the downfall of yours,most times we use our mouth to cause problems for ourselves not every one who calls themselves your friend that you should tell you problems to.your husband/wife should be your best friend that you discus everything with not those out there.
(6) BE A MOTIVATOR NOT A TORMENTOR.
Your partner needs you at every time to motivate them even if he/she doesn’t ask they need you to tell them words like. (Baby you can do it,My love I believe in you, Don’t come back home with out that appointment cause you are my hero.etc) they want to hear those from you not words like(I know you are just a fool,you can never do something great,you are my biggest mistake.etc).make sure you add value to your partner’s life is after one year of marriage your partner is still the same way you met them ask your self.
A successful and peaceful marriage can not be achieved by one person but by the two coming together as one to build it.
